In the last year and six months I have been attending the University of Phoenix to obtain my Bachelors degree in Management and Administration. June is fast approaching when I graduate with my new degree. Yes, I am on the 26+ year plan. It was funny when I was younger joking around about it. Today it is much more serious. My grade point average is 3.25. By-the-time I finish school it should be closer to a 3.5. In July I start with the Masters program with the emphasis on Marketing.
I have had many jobs that included restaurants, movie theaters, travel agency wholesalers, acting (Entertainment), computer programming (RPG), and mortgage brokers. I even started my own businesses while I was in college the first time around. It was a discount bread and cake store featuring Pepperidge Farm products. It failed in the 6 months that I had the store. It was all about location. The last business I tried to start was a marketing company. It died before I could even get any clients. I had absolutely no money behind me. I was going on a dream and hoped that employees would be willing to work for free for just a month or 2. Yea right. I guess that is now biting me in the butt. My last employer like so many past employers owe me a paycheck.
I have tried to do things right. It seems the more I try the more I get bit. Now I am trying to change my profession again for the last and final time. I want to get into an advertising agency or an entertainment company. I am getting frustrated that the only positions that these companies are hiring for are the positions I cannot do. I am highly creative and probably too smart for my own good. I like to know everything there is to know about the industry I work in. Is that wrong?
Job searching on Monster, Career Builder, Hot Jobs! and other sites seems like I am trying to find a needle in a haystack. Why can’t these employers see that I am that valuable employee who is loyal and is willing to learn everything? Do I scare them? I am not looking to take anyone’s job away. I can compliment any team. I am a team player. I am enthusiastic, highly motivated, and have many life experiences. Or are they really discriminating about my age? Yes, I just did the discrimination card. I am in my mid 40’s. My mind is like a 20 year old. Always thinking and creating. Am I asking for too much? What is too much? Before I think about salary I see what expenses I have or will have in the future then I check with Salary.com. I am not far off on what I ask for. I am usually under or in the mid range. I should not have to apologize for my expenses. My expenses are like most divorced fathers who pay child support, have a car payment, have to pay rent or a mortgage, buy food and clothes, pay utilities and cell phone (my cell phone is shut off right now). I listen to the experts on what your resume should look like. I even have a professionally written cover letter that I found on Monster. What is frustrating is that my best friend is searching for a job too. Her resume looks like a 2 year old put it together and her cover letter is just a paragraph long. Nothing special. She gets more interviews and calls then I get. I don’t understand this. I try to follow up on each submission. All I get is we will get back with you. To me is ” we don’t want you, go away.”
These are my frustrations. Please don’t tell me I am not doing the searches properly. I know my skills, strengths, and weaknesses. I focus on my weaknesses to make them my strengths.